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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Kuldrin Entertainment LLC

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 57 Ratings

With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

    Professional BDSM Domination Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21

    Professional BDSM Domination Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21

    Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/ Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.How long?Pro only or pro and lifestyle?Do you switch?Most unusual request?Your style of domination?What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?What do you have coming up? Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme &...

    • 1 hr 56 min
    The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20

    The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20

    Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024
    - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDisclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.“From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn’t prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorderPBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6%...

    • 1 hr 33 min
    Drama Queens The New Predator Part 1-S05E19

    Drama Queens The New Predator Part 1-S05E19

    Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days). 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights). 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519National Suicide Hotline:...

    • 1 hr 40 min
    Human Furniture What, Why, and How-S05E18

    Human Furniture What, Why, and How-S05E18

    Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024
    - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don’t expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of...

    • 1 hr 14 min
    BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17

    BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17

    Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?Marriage?Life?Advice to others?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and...

    • 1 hr 37 min
    Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16

    Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16

    Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023
    - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”“68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJA new piece of research has revealed that a staggeringly high number of women have had a non-consensual sexual experience while experimenting with a partner.The research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they’d met online who claimed to be into BDSM.

    Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn’t been agreed upon with prior consent.

    As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you’re planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it’s vital that you feel safe.
    Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner’s interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that’s why kinky dating apps work so well.
    "In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure.
    "The kink community is serious about safety, but if you’re new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn’t, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience?
    If you’re looking to broaden your horizons and you’re curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn’t just...

    • 1 hr 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
57 Ratings

57 Ratings

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Being newish to the community I appreciate this podcast and hold it above most others because of how real and relatable Kuldren and funsize are. I’m only 35 episodes in but I enjoy the topics and have truly learned a lot about far more then I thought I should know. Thank you for educating and making it fun!

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I have been in and out of bdsm for 8 years and I came across your podcast less than 8 months ago when I was looking up something for primal play and I enjoy all of it and I would recommend your podcast to anyone who would like to get into to lifestyle

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