Disagree better Tammy Lenski
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How we handle conflict has an impact on the resilience of our vital relationships, the caliber of our decisions, the success of our careers, and our peace of mind. Mediator, conflict resolution teacher, and author Tammy Lenski, Ed.D., uses storytelling and science to help us transform our experience with conflict and inspire us to disagree better at work and at home. The podcast was formerly called The Space Between.
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Venting anger: Why it doesn’t help and what to do instead
Venting anger doesn’t help you calm down and increases aggression. So why is the venting myth still embraced? And what’s better?
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Discovering and managing conflict hooks, part 2
Here's an exercise to help you identify your conflict hooks and increase emotional agility during difficult interactions.
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Find part 1 here.
How knowing your conflict hooks helps reduce conflict in your life.
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Discovering and managing your conflict hooks, part 1
One of the best ways to increase emotional agility in conflict is to recognize and manage your conflict hooks.
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Unburied empathy
What we do immediately after we express empathy helps or hinders the connection and alignment we’re trying to build.
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Use these 5 phrases to air your grievances and get heard
How to skip the drama and the rumination and raise a concern so they’ll actually listen.
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Disagree better by asking great questions
It’s tempting to tell people what they should do. It feels efficient, and it makes us feel helpful and wise. When we replace telling with asking, we can do something more powerful and, ultimately, more satisfying: Help people illuminate what’s important and generate effective solutions to problems.
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Customer Reviews
Highly recommend
Excellent podcast! Short and actionable ideas. Highly recommend
So glad I found this!
Really good info and tips packed into short 5-7 minute segments that are very easy to listen to. So glad I found this!
Great wisdom here!
Thanks so much for all your practical ideas on how to resolve conflicts and emotional challenges that come my way❤️