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I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. The guests provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more.

Relationship Advice Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz

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    • 4.3 • 1.6K Ratings

I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. The guests provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more.

    Using Polarity To Improve Your Relationship

    Using Polarity To Improve Your Relationship

    Understanding gender polarity and gender roles is a great way to improve the health and happiness of your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to apply this knowledge and start improving your relationship today!
    In this episode with Magda Kay we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    Why romantic desire requires polarity and how to create it

    Why you need to be communicating about roles in your relationship

    Understanding your ideas about gender roles and applying this knowledge to your relationship

    Moving between polarity and familiarity to create a loving and fulfilling relationship

    How energy flows differently between the masculine and feminine 

    And much more!

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    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 41 min
    When Expectations Are Not Met

    When Expectations Are Not Met

    We all have expectations for our lives and relationships. When our expectations are not met is usually when we are most disappointed, upset, angry, insert negative emotion here. So what do we do? A good place to start is to learn what realistic expectations are for your relationship and learn how to ask for what you need. Listen to today's episode to get these tips and tools and start applying them to your relationship today!
    In this episode with Talia Bombola we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    Establishing your expectations for a relationship and how to determine if they are realistic or not

    How to consciously get your wants and needs met in a relationship

    Communication tips to get your relationship needs fulfilled

    The importance of of not only pointing out the negative in your relationship

    Confronting the fact that your partner will disappoint you

    And much more!

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    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 38 min
    Hard Relationship Truths You Need To Hear

    Hard Relationship Truths You Need To Hear

    Society, pop culture, media and the internet all paint a pretty rosy picture of what a relationship 'should' look like. Unfortunately, these models often don't reflect what a relationship will actually look like nor how to make them work well. Listen to today's show to understand what a healthy relationship actually looks like and requires. 
    In this episode with Todd Baratz we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    The harsh reality that our partner's will always frustrate us

    Why love is conditional in adult relationships

    A healthy approach to using attachment theory to inform your relationship experience 

    What to do when the honeymoon phase ends in your relationship

    How to navigate a decrease in sexual desire in your relationship

    The importance of understanding your partner's triggers and communicating about your own

    And much more!

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    Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 39 min
    Moving Through Challenges

    Moving Through Challenges

    Throughout our lives we will be challenged with relationships, jobs and family among other things. Cultivating a positive mindset with tools to navigate these challenges is an important part of living a more joyful life. Listen to today's show to learn more about the tools to help move through all of life's challenges. 
    In this episode with Tammy Mastroberte we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    How to cultivate spirituality and how to interpret signs the universe may be showing you

    What to do when you feel like you're stuck in your life or relationship

    How to integrate acceptance and surrender into your life

    Exercises to cultivate more gratitude in your relationship

    How to infuse your life with more joy

    And much more!

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    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 45 min
    How To Deal With Anxiety And Overthinking

    How To Deal With Anxiety And Overthinking

    Anxiety, overthinking and our overall mental health has a huge impact on our physical health. It's important to understand just how much our mental and physical health are intertwined. There's no one better than a critical care nurse turned therapist like today's guest to guide us through improving and understanding the link between our mental and physical health. 
    In this episode with Denise Schonwald we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    How to deal with anxiety and how it impacts us physically

    How our body interprets anxiety

    Tools to interrupt patterns of anxiety and overthinking

    How to support an anxious partner

    How negative mental health patterns manifest physically

    And much more!

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    Cozy Earth offers bedding products that will transform your sleep. Head over to COZYEARTH.COM and use promo code "IDO" for an exclusive 35% off.
    Ro Body provides access to the most popular weight loss shots on the market. Go to RO.CO/IDO and sign up today, you’ll pay just $99 for your first month!
    Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 38 min
    Shifting From Default Monogamous Relating

    Shifting From Default Monogamous Relating

    There are many ways to structure a romantic relationship outside of the traditional monogamous framework. Listen to today's episode to explore the different non-traditional relationship styles and the common issues and benefits people experience in them. 
    In this episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

    The number one tip to experience a successful non-monogamous relationship

    Should you try a non-monogamous relationship to save your current monogamous one?

    How to discuss the idea of a non-monogamous relationship when you're currently in a monogamous relationship

    How to navigate jealousy in any relationship

    Dealing with the discomfort when experiencing jealousy

    How to unpack your narrative around jealousy in your relationship

    And much more!

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    Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
    If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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    • 44 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
1.6K Ratings

1.6K Ratings

Maxi.W.G. ,

3 episodes in and already changed my relationship

Actually didn’t need to get three episodes in, the guests you have on are so insightful and your questions get straight to the heart of what I’m seeking to find out more about. Have already felt so much relief and reassurance hearing these professionals discuss topics that I’ve been struggling with in my relationship. You’ve saved me a lot of time wading through books so I can apply the advice NOW. Thank you!!!

Bjohnson7864 ,

Looking for help not advertisements

I listened to about 15 minutes of this so have a grain of salt here. The first five or so they spent pitching their coaching course wanting people to signup. Then the intro to the show, guest speaker for around 3-5 minutes, and more ads. That where the podcast ended for me.

CollGeis ,

How to radiate positivity - episode

Very insightful episode excellent guest. So many simple things I can do to change the world and be a better person. Be the sun not the Salt. 🙂🙃🙂

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