Glamorous and Polyamorous Xavi Benjamin

In today’s episode, we’re tackling your burning questions! Worried about metamours "cowboying" your partner away? Let's soothe those anxieties and build trust together. Plus, we're busting myths about unicorn hunting and sharing tips for navigating New Relationship Energy (NRE) with style. And don't miss our advice on overcoming guilt and shame, especially for those with a religious background.
A special thank you to our Kind Sluts™:
* Adelia Majano
* Victoria Mendieta
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Welcome to the ultimate polyamory extravaganza! Join us as we dive into the wild world of love without limits, fueled by insights from "Polysecure," "The Ethical Slut," "Multiamory," and "All My Relations." Discover how to reignite your passions, communicate like a pro, and embrace the thrill of multiple romantic connections. From decoding emotions to building a rock-solid support network, we've got you covered. So grab your glitter and join the fun – because in polyamory, the party never stops! Let's spread love and liberation together! 🎉🌈💕
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Glamorous and Polyamorous is more than just a podcast; it’s a heartfelt journey through life, love, and self-discovery. Our mission is crystal clear: we’re here to offer support, visibility, and a sense of community to those who have experienced religious trauma and are now exploring polyamory and non-monogamy. Having faced the very challenges we aim to address, we bring our own stories, insights, triumphs, and mistakes to the table.
Song used in intro/outro: “My Bed” by Violet Paniko


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Hey there! In today's chat, we're tackling the topic of Purity Culture. We're getting real about the stuff we had to let go of, like Kelly questioning the whole 'God as the moral compass' idea and Xavi breaking free from feeling inherently sinful. Plus, Kelly spills the tea on the whole modesty thing and why it's so messed up. We'll also dive into Xavi's journey of exploring their sexuality, including some group fun!
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ABOUT THE SHOW
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Glamorous and Polyamorous is more than just a podcast; it’s a heartfelt journey through life, love, and self-discovery. Our mission is crystal clear: we’re here to offer support, visibility, and a sense of community to those who have experienced religious trauma and are now exploring polyamory and non-monogamy. Having faced the very challenges we aim to address, we bring our own stories, insights, triumphs, and mistakes to the table.
Song used in intro/outro: “My Bed” by Violet Paniko


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Join us as we dive into the world of polyamory, discussing the common mistakes made and the valuable lessons we've learned from them. From setting rules that no longer apply to navigating emotional unavailability, our candid conversation sheds light on the complexities of polyamorous relationships. Tune in for insightful reflections and practical advice on thriving in non-monogamous dynamics. Don't miss out on this engaging episode!
Support the show💕 Join our community to get the latest episodes and exclusive behind-the-scenes content 👀 https://glampolyam.com/links

Thank you to our Kind Sluts:
Adelia Majano Victoria Mendieta =======================
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ABOUT THE SHOW
=======================
Glamorous and Polyamorous is more than just a podcast; it’s a heartfelt journey through life, love, and self-discovery. Our mission is crystal clear: we’re here to offer support, visibility, and a sense of community to those who have experienced religious trauma and are now exploring polyamory and non-monogamy. Having faced the very challenges we aim to address, we bring our own stories, insights, triumphs, and mistakes to the table.
Song used in intro/outro: “My Bed” by Violet Paniko


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In this episode, Xavi and Kelly tell us about first dates during Covid, spill juicy details from their first swinger party, and share the highs and lows of their first serious relationships. It's a rollercoaster of emotions and laughter you won't want to miss!


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Thank you to our Kind Sluts:
Adelia Majano Victoria Mendieta =======================
STAY IN TOUCH
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ABOUT THE SHOW
=======================
Glamorous and Polyamorous is more than just a podcast; it’s a heartfelt journey through life, love, and self-discovery. Our mission is crystal clear: we’re here to offer support, visibility, and a sense of community to those who have experienced religious trauma and are now exploring polyamory and non-monogamy. Having faced the very challenges we aim to address, we bring our own stories, insights, triumphs, and mistakes to the table.
Song used in intro/outro: “My Bed” by Violet Paniko


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In today's episode, we're spilling the tea on couples seeking a unicorn 🦄 for extra sparkle in their love lives. Join Xavi and Kelly for laughs, myths, and some tips in case you're looking for a triad in earnest. Is unicorn hunting spice-seeking or predatory? Find out and share your thoughts below! 🎉✨

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To Unicorn Hunters, From an Ex-Unicorn — Polyamory For Us - Sharing What We've Learned Support the show💕 Join our community to get the latest episodes and exclusive behind-the-scenes content 👀 https://glampolyam.com/links

Thank you to our Kind Sluts:
Adelia Majano Victoria Mendieta =======================
STAY IN TOUCH
=======================
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ABOUT THE SHOW
=======================
Glamorous and Polyamorous is more than just a podcast; it’s a heartfelt journey through life, love, and self-discovery. Our mission is crystal clear: we’re here to offer support, visibility, and a sense of community to those who have experienced religious trauma and are now exploring polyamory and non-monogamy. Having faced the very challenges we aim to address, we bring our own stories, insights, triumphs, and mistakes to the table.
Song used in intro/outro: “My Bed” by Violet Paniko


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