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Welcome to 2 Moms 0 Attention Span! Here we talk about raising our kids and how life has changed since we were kids. We both have kids and we raise them different from how we were raised. Do you want to hear how we do it?
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Filming People in Crisis for Clout
Alison (aka @alisonsaidno) is back this week to talk about the problems with filming and commenting on people and children in crisis to have a viral moment. We all discuss the viral video where the parents wrapped their child in Saran Wrap and filmed it for a "funny" viral video....However, the video went viral for the opposite reason the parents thought it would and there were very REAL WORLD repercussions for their viral moment.
0:59- The child in Walmart having a meltdown
3:00- People's first reactions to a child in distress
3:45- People chiming in on what they would have done, in a situation they have never been in
5:50- That moment will be online for the child forever
6:20- Calling the police on a child in crisis
8:30- Viral video of man having a meltdown- nephew speaks out
12:30- Someone recording us in our lowest moment- and how would that feel
13:00- Parents posting meltdowns for educational content
15:50- Kids speaking out about their social media presence their parents created
17:39- The Saran Wrap video
19:50- Parents push these vids w/ kids further and further for views-
20:00- The trauma of CPS being called
26:00- The danger of a person with 1M followers doing this
29:00- Being given the opportunity to exploit children for $
TT/IG- @alisonsaidno / @jesmartini @jes_martini
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Kayla aka KaylaJaye_: The Dangers of Social Media
Today we dive in to the dangers of Social Media- the fun side of social media, and our behind-the-scene thoughts (as content creators) on how all of this effects our kids.
1:30- Why as moms do we feel like we do everything and nothing all at the same time?
3:30-Tips for getting started on social media if interested
4:30- The upside to social media
5:20- Every adult is probably addicted to their phones
7:00- What is the impact of our kids watching us not be present during the day?
8:15- How do you feel about social media for your kids?
10:00- Are we going to give these kids a pass for the embarrassing things they put on the internet as teens?
12:10- We have monetized human attention
12:50- Attention span since starting social media
14:20- "I love garbage"
15:28- My worry for teens on social media- they don't ever get a break from "trying to fit in"
17:30- Snapchat is the worst
18:50- One way to protect kids from dangers of social media
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Chatting with Menzennial
You all probably know Menzennial from Tiktok where she narrates the Child's point of view in her "big feelings" series. Today we talk about the imperfections of parenting, unrealistic expectations we put on children, and the difficult parts of gentle/respectful parenting. Menzie always keeps it real, down to earth, and relatable...this episode is a ton of fun to listen to.
1:27- Catching up with Menzie
1:40- Story time about her child being lost!
5:50- unrealistic expectations of children
11:30- joining kids in the emotional dis-regulation
15:00- "No" is a powerful word
17:00- authoritarian parents often give in to a situation to regulate themselves
21:00- Kids need structure and routine and count on the parents to provide that
24:00- kids should know the "why's" behind what it is they are doing- we need to develop those critical thinking skills
27:15- Wrapping up with final thoughts
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Today we talk with Marcella from High Impact Club!
FREE RESOURCE ALERT- Marcella and I will be hosting a masterclass with HIC Parenting- it will be February 21st- So, mark your calendar!!
We talk today about parenting with understanding and parenting neurodivergent kids, as neurodivergent parents.
We will be hosting a masterclass talking about 5 steps to working with our strong-willed or highly sensitive children. Marcella shares about her past growing up as a child undiagnosed with ADHD. She opens up about how she came to discover parenting with understanding and her journey raising children in foster care. This is an episode you won't want to miss! She has a very powerful story I think everyone should hear. Especially if you are feeling "these parenting styles won't work for my child".
MARCELLA- Tiktok- @highimpactclub/ IG- @highimpactclub/ Youtube- HIC Parenting Education
Masterclass Registration Link- https://masterclass.hicparenting.com/webinar-registration1673110500055?utm_medium=bio&utm_source=master_class_invitation&utm_term=mbio
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Talking Conscious Discipline with Mr. Chazz!
Mr. Chazz is an absolute wealth of knowledge for both parents and educators. He has a way of breaking down information in such a down-to-earth and obtainable way, you will absolutely leave this episode feeling both validated and confident in your parenting journey. Today we dive in to taking the first steps towards growth in your journey, allowing yourself to make mistakes, making space for children to make mistakes as well, and the challenges that face men specifically with gentle/respectful/conscious parenting.
2:05- Mr. Chazz breaks down how he became an educational specialist and what brought him to conscious discipline
4:46- Why is it that men tend to have a hard time with gentle/respectful parenting and the experience of men having to suppress emotions their entire life
7:15- It become engrained in men that it is not ok or safe to express emotions
8:30- Young children are like 90% emotion
10:20- The first step was realizing "this is not how I want to be"- and then the hard work comes in
13:30- Mistakes are an important part of the learning process
14:00- OOPS ( Our Opportunity to Problem Solve)
16:45- Teaching Perseverance
18:45- People have a tendency to treat little boys with more force than little girls
20:00- "This is why the men today are so soft"
24:00- Powerful Conversation that I got to witness in my own home
25:50- Punishment is NOT a requirement for learning- Kids learn a ton in these moments of connection
26:40- 7 Skills to teach children with Conscious Discipline
28:45- 2 Final thoughts from Mr. Chazz
1- See Child first before offering guidence
2- Perfection does NOT exist- the goal is not be perfect everyday, its to prove everyday
Tiktok- @mrchazzmrchazz / @jesmartini
Instagram- @mrchazz / @jes_martini
Youtube- @Mr. Chazz Mr. Chazz
Facebook- MrChazz MrChazz
Podcast- Mr. Chazz's Leadership, Parenting and Teaching Podcast
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Let's Talk about Parenting after Trauma with @Thebirthtrauma_mama
Kayleigh has created a space of solidarity and support for parents who are navigating parenting after trauma. She has a powerful story and message that all should hear. Having experienced a traumatic pregnancy of my own- I am so grateful for the space that she has created online. The ending is a MUST watch.
0:30- Intro for Kayleigh
1:56- Kayleigh's birth story
9:43- Waking up from the coma and meeting her son
12:35- How did the trauma of the birth impact the first few months of parenting?
15:50- Coming out on the other side and feeling like "this is who I will be for the rest of my life"
19:10- Struggling with your partner after trauma
21:41- Having compassion for yourself
24:00- Final thoughts before wrapping up
25:33- Unspoken rule in motherhood- that you can't talk about something you are upset about when you are supposed to only be grateful
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Customer Reviews
Love this podcast!!
I’ve been following these two moms on TikTok for a while now and they both have helped me learn so much. I’m so excited they have a podcast now. I just wish the episodes were longer.
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