98 episodes

Grow Yourself Up is a podcast to support all of us in our adult lives. 
Many of us did not get our needs adequately met in childhood. The devastating legacy of childhood trauma, wounding and traumatic stress lives on in our brains, our bodies, our nervous systems and our behaviour/reactions. Which in turn impacts the way we turn up to our lives in many ways.
We are going to unpack all of this on Grow Yourself Up. This podcast will be a companion as you travel on your own road of healing and recovery. 
You will learn you are not alone. 
Someone has been where you are. 
There is hope. 
We will break down shame together and learn to cultivate self compassion. 
There is always the possibility for change. 
And regardless of what has happened in our past, as adults we have to take responsibility for our own lives. We have to tend to our pain, our sadness and our dysfunction so that we can live a life we love and shift toxic patterns for our children. 
If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it. To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
Follow Cath on social media here:
Instagram: @cathcounihan
Substack: Nurture.Heal.Grow
Facebook: Cath Counihan 
The podcast is produced each week by the wonderful Audio Café.
Thanks for listening. Cath.


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Grow Yourself Up Catherine Counihan

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 15 Ratings

Grow Yourself Up is a podcast to support all of us in our adult lives. 
Many of us did not get our needs adequately met in childhood. The devastating legacy of childhood trauma, wounding and traumatic stress lives on in our brains, our bodies, our nervous systems and our behaviour/reactions. Which in turn impacts the way we turn up to our lives in many ways.
We are going to unpack all of this on Grow Yourself Up. This podcast will be a companion as you travel on your own road of healing and recovery. 
You will learn you are not alone. 
Someone has been where you are. 
There is hope. 
We will break down shame together and learn to cultivate self compassion. 
There is always the possibility for change. 
And regardless of what has happened in our past, as adults we have to take responsibility for our own lives. We have to tend to our pain, our sadness and our dysfunction so that we can live a life we love and shift toxic patterns for our children. 
If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it. To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
Follow Cath on social media here:
Instagram: @cathcounihan
Substack: Nurture.Heal.Grow
Facebook: Cath Counihan 
The podcast is produced each week by the wonderful Audio Café.
Thanks for listening. Cath.


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    Ep 97: Power, Systems, Gardening and Growing Up in Motherhood with Marchelle Farrell

    Ep 97: Power, Systems, Gardening and Growing Up in Motherhood with Marchelle Farrell

    Cath was joined by author and medical psychotherapist Marchelle Farrell in episode 97. Cath and Marchelle chatted about Marchelle's childhood in Trinidad and Tobago, the systems her parents operated in, how those systems still operate today, privilege, power, relationships and so much more. We talked about Marchelle's path to motherhood, the power within mothering and how she learnt to let herself be held and supported and the role of her garden in this.
    Marchelle Farrell is a writer, medical psychotherapist and amateur gardener. Born in Trinidad and Tobago she has spent over 20 years attempting to become hardy here in the UK. She is curious about the relationship between our external and internal landscapes, the patterns we reenact in relation to the land, and how they might be changed. Her debut book, Uprooting, won the Nan Shepherd Prize for nature writing.
    You can contact Marchelle on Instagram and her handle is @afroliage and on twitter @afroliage (though she rarely uses twitter) or you can contact her via her website www.marchellefarrell.com
    You can catch Marchelle at the following upcoming events around the UK:

    Saturday 27-28th April at the BOCAS Lit Fest in conversation with Safiyah Sinclair and running a nature writing workshop.Saturday 11th May at Nurturing Soils at the Platt Fields Market Garden Manchester in conversation with Amy Jane Beer of Right to Roam and running a nature writing workshop.Sunday 26th May at the City of Literature weekend of the Norfolk & Norwich Festival in conversation with Jessica J Lee and running a nature writing workshop.
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.
    To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
    Follow Cath on social media here:
    Instagram: @cathcounihan
    Substack: Nurture.Heal.Grow
    Facebook: Cath Counihan

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    • 1 hr 4 min
    Ep 96: Partner Rage, Postpartum Health and Healing in Motherhood with Molly Caro May. Re-release

    Ep 96: Partner Rage, Postpartum Health and Healing in Motherhood with Molly Caro May. Re-release

    In episode 96 Cath was joined by author Molly Caro May. This rich and beautiful conversation covered so much ground. They touched on Molly’s memoir ‘Body Full of Stars’, talked about Molly’s postpartum health experiences, breaking cycles in motherhood, rage and self responsibility.
    Molly Caro May is an author of two books, teacher, and holder of space. For 13+ years, she has facilitated personal story workshops for hundreds of people across the globe. She is trained in (Somatic Experiencing) and focuses on where language/voice and the animal body meet each other.
    Her mission is to democratise expression and explore, in good company, the healing alchemy between story and nervous system. She runs online workshops, in-person retreats and keeps the fire lit for her membership community 'The Loam'.
    You can learn more about her work at www.mollycaromay.com or on Instagram @mollycaromay
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.
    To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
    Follow Cath on social media here:
    Instagram: @cathcounihan
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    • 51 min
    Ep 95: Hypervigilence, Knowing Ourselves, Enoughness and Values in Parenting

    Ep 95: Hypervigilence, Knowing Ourselves, Enoughness and Values in Parenting

    This episode is a continuation of some of the themes from episode 94 (and can also be listened to alone).
    Cath speaks about the core of people pleasing and how carrying this into parenting sets us up to feel bad, she touches on ‘metrics’, getting to know ourselves and having an embodied sense of our enough-ness. There is also discussion around values.
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.
    To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
    Follow Cath on social media here:
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    • 27 min
    Ep 94: People Pleasing, Boundaries and Our Needs

    Ep 94: People Pleasing, Boundaries and Our Needs

    In today's episode Cath focuses on people pleasing. She looks at how and why it arises in our family of origin, how it manifests in the way we are in relationships and how it can turn up in parenting. She suggests ways in which to counteract this urge. And next week there will be more on this subject.
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.
    To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
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    • 23 min
    Ep 93: Matrescence and Growing Up in Motherhood with Lucy Jones (Re-release)

    Ep 93: Matrescence and Growing Up in Motherhood with Lucy Jones (Re-release)

    In this episode Cath is joined by author and journalist Lucy Jones. Cath and Lucy discussed Lucy's matrescence journey, her most recent book (Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood), how she makes sense (and continues to) of the huge transition to motherhood, what Lucy finds supportive, how we are all eco systems and some of the realities of mothering at this time in our history.  
    Lucy Jones is an award-winning journalist and the author of four books including the best-selling book Losing Eden: Why Our Minds Need the Wild (Allen Lane), a Times and Telegraph Book of the Year, and most recently Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood. Her writing on science, health and ecology has been published in BBC Earth, The Sunday Times, GQ, the Daily Telegraph and the New Statesman. Lucy is a mother of 3 and lives in Hampshire in England.
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.
    To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
    Follow Cath on social media here:
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    • 56 min
    Ep 92: Respect, Needs, Divorce and Growing Up in Motherhood with Nicola Rae

    Ep 92: Respect, Needs, Divorce and Growing Up in Motherhood with Nicola Rae

    Cath was joined by Coach, Trainer and Supervisor Nicola Rae in episode 92. Cath and Nicola talked about Nicola’s path to motherhood, how she came into relationship with her needs, her divorce and how this relates to growing herself and much more. Nicola shared what she focuses on instead of focusing on being liked and how this gives her freedom. 
    Nicola Rae is a Coach Supervisor, Life & Careers Coach, Coach Trainer and experienced Creative Strategist who works with ambitious brands and leaders to help them to fulfil their potential and speak-up and show-up with heart and make a meaningful difference in the world.
    Nicola is the founder of 'A Life More Inspired' where she combines her 20 year corporate communications/marketing experience with a values-led and compassion-centered coaching methodology rooted in Neuroscience, Positive Psychology and Transactional Analysis.
    Her uniquely positioned supervision and coaching practice helps move her clients into possibility, overcome challenges and step into a more fulfilling way of working, leading and living.
    Nicola works with both organisations and individuals and is committed to bringing nuance to the personal growth, wellness and coaching space, so that it is development for the many and not the few.
    Nicola is trusted by a number of innovative and industry leading brands including being the resident life coach for the global creative agency D&AD, Career Coach for the women’s only private members AllBright and a Coach Trainer for Optimus Coach Academy. In addition to working with Warner Music and Google alongside her thriving private client-led coaching practice.
    Social media - 
    https://www.instagram.com/nicolaraewickham/
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolaraewickham/
    https://nicolarae.substack.com/
    https://www.alifemoreinspired.com/weekly-letter
    Ways to work with Nicola:
    As a private client 121. 
    In her coaching subscription, ROOOTED. 
    In her supervision 121 practice which is for coaches and mentors. 
    If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it. To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. 
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    • 47 min

Customer Reviews

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15 Ratings

15 Ratings

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Just What I Need!

I’m enjoying this podcast so much. I’m a wife, mother and grandma. I’ve been sober five years. I came from a dysfunctional family. I raised my children, unfortunately, as a damaged parent.
My sobriety journey is leading me to emotional maturity. I’m starving for this! I was an addictive people pleaser for too long.
I hope to learn valuable tools that will help me discover my true self.

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Great podcast

I find this podcast very validating and helpful.

Magan H ,

Absolutely amazing!

I adore Cath & her ability to speak to exactly what needs to be heard by all of us in a compassionate & relatable way. I resonate deeply with literally everything she says!! Such a good podcast for growing yourself up

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