54 episodes

Friends and pastors Jared Torrence & Andy Farmer bring you That Don’t Fit Podcast. They are dedicated to talking about life and life’s real issues that cross racial and generational lines. They are here to help people talk through and process through life in a crazy world.

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    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 5.0 • 44 Ratings

Friends and pastors Jared Torrence & Andy Farmer bring you That Don’t Fit Podcast. They are dedicated to talking about life and life’s real issues that cross racial and generational lines. They are here to help people talk through and process through life in a crazy world.

    Episode 54: Digesting Our News Feed

    Episode 54: Digesting Our News Feed

    In this episode we try to get a handle on how we get our news and how we make sense of what we get. This isn’t a ‘hot takes’ debate. It is two guys who want to stay up to date with what’s going on, but who don’t want to be buried under an avalanche of information and opinions in the process.  

    • 45 min
    Episode 53: Ethnic Harmony and a Latino Perspective

    Episode 53: Ethnic Harmony and a Latino Perspective

    In this episode we interview Jorge Pardo, a man from Puerto Rico of Spanish and Cuban descent. Jorge talks about his cultural heritage and being a Latino in non-Latino spaces, and how he navigates that experience as a follower of Christ. 

    • 38 min
    Episode 52: ’The Funny Thing About Crying’

    Episode 52: ’The Funny Thing About Crying’

    JT and Andy talk about crying - why we do it and what it does for us.  This isn’t a conversation about sorrow or grief - it’s a conversation about the crazy ways our bodies work that produces the experience of crying. Paradoxically, we laugh a lot in this episode.

    • 45 min
    Episode 51: Happenings

    Episode 51: Happenings

    JT and Andy catch up after a break in recording episodes to talk about what they've been doing, what they are currently listening to and reading, and they drop into a conversation about the value of friendship for those who are in ministry.

    • 29 min
    Episode 50: We Ruminate on Prayer

    Episode 50: We Ruminate on Prayer

    Andy and JT discuss the practice, challenges and glories of prayer and how they have been inspired to pray by the experience and words of others.
     
     
    Quotes:
    C. S. Lewis:  "Well, let’s now at any rate come clean.  Prayer is irksome.  An excuse to omit it is never unwelcome.  When it is over, this casts a feeling of relief and holiday over the rest of the day.  We are reluctant to begin.  We are delighted to finish.  While we are at prayer, but not while we are reading a novel or solving a cross-word puzzle, any trifle is enough to distract us."
     
    Tim Kerr:  “To pray in the Spirit is to pray when the Spirit moves in our hearts and helps us to desire and seek God’s will. It is the Spirit imparting the heart of God to us in the moment. When we pray in the Spirit, as John Owen says so compellingly, ‘we see a sight of God as on a throne of grace’ and we know He welcomes our prayers to Him.” 
     
    Corrie Ten Boom: ”Any concern too small to be turned into a prayer is too small to be made into a burden."
     
    E.M. Bounds:  "Prayer….is simply making known our requests to God for things agreeable to His will in the name of Christ….Prayer is infinite ignorance trusting to the wisdom of God."
     
    Timothy Chester:  "Here is the test of whether you have grasped the radical simplicity of the gospel.  Do you think your prayers are more likely to be answered if you are living a more godly life or if you are also fasting or if you bind demons in your prayer or if you pray for two hours rather than one hour?  If we are inclined to answer yes to any of these questions then we have not grasped the sufficiency of Christ’s mediatorial role."
     
    Timothy Chester: "It is sometimes said that good private prayer is the foundation of good corporate prayer, but it may be more biblical to say that that corporate prayer is the foundation of private prayer.  Our experience of God in Christ is corporate.  Western individualism has made the individual alone with God the centre of spirituality.  For the people of the Bible it is the relationship between God and his people that is central.  Personal prayer revolves around this common experience-not the other way around."
     
    Charles Spurgeon:  “The throne to which we are called is the throne of grace.  It is a throne set up on purpose for the dispensation of grace and from which every utterance is an utterance of grace.  The scepter that is stretched out from it is the silver scepter of grace.  The decrees proclaimed from it are purposes of grace.  The gifts that are scattered down its golden steps are gifts of grace, and he who sits upon the throne is grace Himself”.  
     
    "I find it wise to sprinkle a few words of prayer between everything I do" - Charles Spurgeon
     
    "I find this a tremendous truth and a rather uncomfortable challenge ,my prayers, whether I pray, how much I pray, about what I pray—reveal my priorities, and they reveal how much I really think I need God, or whether I am—deep down, in fact self-assured and self-righteous. If Paul, an Apostle of Christ Jesus, by the will of God knew that he needed to bow my knees before the Father, what of us? If Jesus Christ, the greatest teacher in the world followed up his instruction by prayer what of us, if Jesus Christ who was sent on a mission that changed not just world history but all of eternity, knew that he needed to pray—what of us?" - Alistair Begg
     
    "Then came the reading of the scripture, that was time enough no hurry, how those English people did love the word of God. The second prayer followed. that was my prayer because it was everybody’s cry. His prayer was greater to me than his sermon. In his sermon, he talked with men, in his prayer, he communed with God. When he described the coming of Christ to the soul it seemed to me I saw for the first time I saw the King in his beauty—the suppliant was forgiven, with his face streaming with tears and his tone so full and rich that it swept throug

    • 32 min
    Episode 49: A Conversation with Onwuchekwa

    Episode 49: A Conversation with Onwuchekwa

    Recently we had a chance to sit down with pastor, author and urban entrepreneur John Onwuchekwa for a conversation about building healthy church communities in urban areas and a bunch of other things that came up.

    • 1 hr 5 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
44 Ratings

44 Ratings

outofdelaware ,

Outofdelaware

I love listening to you guys. I’ve learned so much, about myself, the heart and nature of God centered around the subject of racial awareness - I didn’t think about it much. But, wow the talk about being God’s image bearers. The Word study on justice. Gods very nature is Justice! The sad history of the church (come on); we can and must do better, be better. Thanks for honesty and balance. I always go away with something revealed in the heart that I go to the Lord to help me change. Let me sow more respect, kindness, humbleness and courage. Don’t always do it well, but I want to. Thanks, I know it must not always be convenient, but keep the talks coming.

Lefty twice ,

Kyle

Now you have 43! Grateful for the heart both of you have for the church and your faithfulness to exalt Christ and his gospel while you lean into complex issues!

That don't fit Stan ,

Love this pod!!!

These dudes are hilarious! They are so different, but so gospel centered. I’m grateful for these conversations that take me into challenging issues in ethnicity that are embedded in love and humor. These brothers educate me not only on the content of topics but in how to talk about them in a godly way too.

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