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Have you tried Gentle Parenting? Are you a fan of Attachment but just can’t put it all together? Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?

Welcome to the Peace and Parenting Podcast with Michelle Kenney, M. Ed. Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are completely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions.

Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through her interviews with experts and Q&A sessions with struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.

Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments Michelle Kenney, M. Ed

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 330 Ratings

Have you tried Gentle Parenting? Are you a fan of Attachment but just can’t put it all together? Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?

Welcome to the Peace and Parenting Podcast with Michelle Kenney, M. Ed. Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are completely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions.

Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through her interviews with experts and Q&A sessions with struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.

    Case Study: Navigating Your Tweens Social Dilemmas

    Case Study: Navigating Your Tweens Social Dilemmas

    Are you worried about the kind of friends your child spends their time with? Do you fear that these bad influences might lead them astray? Join me as I sit down with Anna, a fellow parent who shares her concerns about her children's friendships during their tween years. We discuss practical strategies for empowering our children to trust their instincts, navigate peer pressure, and set healthy boundaries. Let's explore how we can help our children stand up for themselves and make better choices in their friendships.

    In this Episode:
    Parenting from fear vs. connectionEmbracing empathy in guiding children's choicesFostering open communication and understandingNavigating peer pressure with resilienceCultivating deeper family connections through support
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    • 21 min
    What Our Kids Need to End Sibling Rivalry

    What Our Kids Need to End Sibling Rivalry

    Ever felt caught in the crossfire of sibling battles, unsure how to step in without taking sides? As parents, we yearn for peaceful homes where our children thrive together. But when it comes to resolving conflicts between siblings, finding the balance between intervention and neutrality can feel like navigating a minefield.

    Today, I delve into the transformative power of neutral intervention in sibling conflicts. I’ll explore practical strategies for defusing tension and fostering understanding between siblings without inadvertently fueling the fire.

    In this Episode:
    How neutral intervention fosters understanding and harmonyEmpathy empowers children in conflict resolutionReframe your approach to conflict resolutionCreate a harmonious sibling dynamic rooted in empathyHow to guide children to express themselves authentically
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    • 19 min
    Case Study: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child

    Case Study: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child

    How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don't align with your child's temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but these did not work for Jack. As a result, Danielle and Neal sought alternative approaches and eventually discovered Peace and Parenting.

    Danielle and Neal share the significant role that working on their childhood issues played in their journey. They also discuss which techniques worked for them, the impact of setting limits without punishments, and the importance of understanding your child and parenting style.

    In this Episode:
    Challenges and Traditional Parenting FailsDiscovering a New Approach to ParentingThe Impact of Coaching on Parenting and Personal GrowthThe Evolution of Parenting: From Struggles to SuccessReflections on Parenting Techniques and Setting Limits
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    • 25 min
    The Time-Tested Strategy for a More Peaceful Home

    The Time-Tested Strategy for a More Peaceful Home

    Are you spending your time parenting, or is parenting spending your time? Today on Peace and Parenting, I delve into Pam Leo's profound wisdom, exploring the intricate balance between meeting our children's emotional needs and managing their behaviors.

    Drawing from my own personal experiences, I share the transformative power of filling our children's cups with love. From navigating sibling rivalry to taming the spirited soul, we explore how investing in connection yields dividends of resilience and harmony in the years to come.
    In this Episode:
    Pam Leo's wisdom on parenting prioritiesConnective parenting vs. traditional methodsInvesting time in connection reaps long-term benefitsNavigating challenges with empathy and playTools and resources for embracing connective parenting
    🔗 Join my Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.
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    📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!

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    • 17 min
    Case Study: My Toddler Won’t Stop Screaming in Public

    Case Study: My Toddler Won’t Stop Screaming in Public

    Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face.

    It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son's screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child's unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction.

    In this Episode:
    Responding to a toddler's screams with playThe stigma around public outbursts in childrenReflecting on parental reactions to yellingUsing affection to address behavioral issuesHow to use playful interaction as a parenting tool
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    💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.

    📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!

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    • 12 min
    Obedience vs. Genuine Respect: You Can’t Have Both

    Obedience vs. Genuine Respect: You Can’t Have Both

    When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach. 

    From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children.

    In this Episode:
    • Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear
    • Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy
    • How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect
    • How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships
    • Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting

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    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
330 Ratings

330 Ratings

Wyatt newkirk is ,

Love Michelle’s perspective !

This is parenting at its best! This has really helped with my sibling rivalry issues! She teaches the parent how to teach the child to resolve conflict and I absolutely love her material! Have learned so much and have become a more thoughtful parent in the process!

el Chubasco ,

Wonderful and generous

This podcast is so thoughtful and has taught me so much. I love how Michelle explains every single concept and idea. I’m so glad I found this podcast, it has transformed they way I approach parenting and help me with the everyday challenges that parenting represents. Thanks Michelle for being so generous and share with us your invaluable insights about parenting.

Natali3GGS ,

Michelle is an inspiration!

Being a mom was the only thing I ever wanted to be. Finding myself yelling and unable to control my emotions with my girls made me feel like a complete failure. I am so grateful that I found this podcast. I listen to it daily. Now I feel like I actually know what I can do in those tough moments and that managing my emotions is much more important than controlling my children and their behavior. Michelle is helping so many of us become the parents we dreamed we would be. Keep up the great work, Michelle! This world needs you!!!

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