Robot Monk Xian'er 贤二机器僧

我们应该如何看待人情世故？
How should we view human feelings? 不离人情，关键看自己的发心。
Not departing from human feelings, the keypoint rests in our aspiration.
应该怎样发心？
How should I arouse my aspiration?     
想让我们的心更加开放、灵活、勇猛，要穿上慈悲的铠甲，拿上智慧的宝剑，把内心的无明与障碍扫除。仅仅寻求答案解决不了问题，只有修行的过程才能解决问题。
In order to make our hearts more open,flexible and brave, we should put on the armor of kindness and compassion, takethe sword of wisdom, and remove the ignorance and obstacles from our hearts.Mental problems cannot be solved just by seeking answers, but by the process ofcultivation and practice.
哦，我明白了。谢谢老师的指导！！
Oh, I see. Thank you Teacher for yourguidance!  !    
不客气。
My pleasure.

应该怎么办？
What should I do?
不要当做还债，要当做结善缘。
Don't treat it as paying a debt,but view itas making good connections.
那别人帮了你，也应该有所回馈吧。
If you got help from someone else, youshould also give something back.    
把心放开，欢喜地接受他人的帮助，对方能感到付出的快乐，这也是一种回馈；进一步，把这种温暖传递给更多的人，则是更好的感恩。
Open your heart and joyfully accept thehelp from others, then they can also feel the joy of giving. This is also akind of giving back.  Whats more, it is abetter gratitude to pass this warmth to more people.
哦，应该大大方方地接受帮助才对呀。
Oh, I should be natural and poised toaccept help.       
勇敢的接受爱、快乐的传递爱，就是对每一个想让世界更美好的人最好的回报和响应。
Brave acceptance of love and joyfultransmission of love are the best reward and response to everyone who wants tomake the world better.

对，就是不愿欠人情。
Yes. I just don't want to owe interpersonaldebt.
“欠人情”的心态，感恩心少而不安更多，因为担心自己将来还人情的麻烦，无形中把人与人之间的关心帮助当做了交换，这是一种自我包裹的表现，是内心虚弱、自卑、怕受伤害的表现。
The mentality of "owing interpersonaldebt" implies less gratitude and more restlessness for fear of the troubleof returning a favor in the future, imperceptibly taking the interpersonal careas an exchange. This is a behaviour of self-wrapping, a symptom of innerweakness, self-abased and fear of being hurt.
为什么会这样呢？
Why is this so?       
这种心理就是过于在意自己。
This kind of psychology isfeatured by taking too much care about self. 

提问（金心）Question ( By Jin Xin)回 答（贤勇）Answer ( By Xian Yong) 我特别害怕求人，如果谁帮了我就总想着怎么赶紧把这份情还回去，心里沉甸甸的。您帮我分析分析这是怎么回事。I am particularly afraid to ask for help. If anyone helps me, I always think about how to return it quickly, loaded with heavy psychological burden.  Please help me analyze what’s going on in my mind. 这就是世间的“人情债”。This is the “interpersonal debt” in the world. 对，就是不愿欠人情。Yes. I just don't want to owe interpersonal debt. “欠人情”的心态，感恩心少而不安更多，因为担心自己将来还人情的麻烦，无形中把人与人之间的关心帮助当做了交换，这是一种自我包裹的表现，是内心虚弱、自卑、怕受伤害的表现。The mentality of "owing interpersonal debt" implies less gratitude and more restlessness for fear of the trouble of returning a favor in the future, imperceptibly taking the interpersonal care as an exchange. This is a behaviour of self-wrapping, a symptom of inner weakness, self-abased and fear of being hurt.

有很多假冒的乞讨者利用我们的同情心骗取钱财，收入比我们还高。我们该如何面对那些乞讨者？
Many fake beggars take advantage of ourcompassion to defraud, making even more money than we do. How should we dealwith such beggars?         把重点放在自己的善业上，懂得自己在做什么，就不会总是随着外境而转。无论他人如何，自己造一份善业，终不会被业果欺骗。
Focus on your own good deeds and know whatyou are doing, and you will be immune to the external phenomena. No matter whatothers do, you will never be deceived by the karmic law when you create a goodkarma.
假乞丐不碍真布施，只要自己的布施心是真诚的、无悔的，那也是成就了一份善业；如果自己做不到，走过他时内心发一个善愿，愿将来自己能以佛法布施给他，也很好；或感慨于现在社会缺乏诚信、沉迷物欲的大环境，把自己的时间、精力、金钱投入到信得过的团体，发心去改善，同样很好。
False beggars do not hinder true giving. Aslong as we give alms with no regret but sincerity, that will constitute a goodkarma; if you are unable to do so, it is also good to make a good wish as youpass by, or to invest your time, energy and money in the group you trust withan aspiration for improvement, when you are concerned about the lack of goodfaith in the present society and the indulgence in an environment ofmaterialism.
谢谢老师的指导，受益匪浅！
Thank you Master for your guidance. It isvery helpful!        祝您好运！
Good luck!

亏欠心与感恩心该如何区分？ How to distinguish between a heart of thanksgiving and a feeling of debt?  亏欠的感觉，内心是封闭的，会感到欠了别人的人情、恩情而沉重不安，感恩心则是一种开放、坦然、真心实意的欢喜。虽都是受了他人的帮助，但前者是烦恼，后者是善法，源于自己内心不同方向的思维习惯。A feeling of debt is a closed state of mind that makes one feel burden and unease due to owing the favor and kindness of others. Whereas a heart of thanksgiving is an open, calm and sincere joy. In the case of receiving help from others, the former is bound by afflictions, while the latter is filled with virtues, both of which derive from different thinking habits in different directions.