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I’m Anna Runkle, also known as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, and I teach people to recognize and heal the symptoms of Childhood PTSD. Welcome to my podcast!I’m not a doctor or therapist; I know about childhood trauma because I lived it, and I discovered a radical approach to healing that focuses first on calming neurological dysregulation, which is common in people who grew up with abuse and neglect. In my podcasts, I teach about dysregulation – how to know if you have it, what it can do to your body, your thinking and your relationships, and what to do to master re-regulation. When I learned this, everything in my life got suddenly easier. I’ll also be teaching you to heal the life problems that so often develop after years of living dysregulated – feeling tired, isolated and unfocused, finding yourself always drawn to unavailable and inappropriate partners, and falling WAY short of your professional potential, for example. The thing about me is, traditional therapies never seemed to help me. When I found techniques that did work, my whole life changed. Only in the past few years has the trauma research caught up to explain why – why the techniques I use worked, why therapy didn’t, and why my healing journey was so unnecessarily long. I’ve been teaching what I learned for more than 20 years now. It started with friends who had noticed the quick and dramatic change in me, and gradually grew by word of mouth. In 2016, I had so many people seeking instruction that I made my first online video, and then an online course, and this is how Crappy Childhood Fairy was born. My techniques and principles are practical yet powerful – an approach anyone can use, whether or not you have access to professional help. In this podcast, I’ll be talking about the master of self-regulation, and teach the tough-love life-lessons that you may not have learned at home – like how to date so that stable love finds you, how to get ahead at work, and how to calm the negative hamster-wheel thoughts that block your ability to connect with other people. Today, almost half a million people follow my work and participate in my training and coaching programs. My mission is to change the paradigm of what’s possible for people like us, and to help you free yourself from the oppression of trauma wounds, and to become your full, happy and real self. I’m glad you’re here! Watch new videos on my YouTube channel every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and access my videos, courses and free tools at crappychildhoodfairy.com.

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle Anna Runkle

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    • 4.8 • 204 Ratings

I’m Anna Runkle, also known as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, and I teach people to recognize and heal the symptoms of Childhood PTSD. Welcome to my podcast!I’m not a doctor or therapist; I know about childhood trauma because I lived it, and I discovered a radical approach to healing that focuses first on calming neurological dysregulation, which is common in people who grew up with abuse and neglect. In my podcasts, I teach about dysregulation – how to know if you have it, what it can do to your body, your thinking and your relationships, and what to do to master re-regulation. When I learned this, everything in my life got suddenly easier. I’ll also be teaching you to heal the life problems that so often develop after years of living dysregulated – feeling tired, isolated and unfocused, finding yourself always drawn to unavailable and inappropriate partners, and falling WAY short of your professional potential, for example. The thing about me is, traditional therapies never seemed to help me. When I found techniques that did work, my whole life changed. Only in the past few years has the trauma research caught up to explain why – why the techniques I use worked, why therapy didn’t, and why my healing journey was so unnecessarily long. I’ve been teaching what I learned for more than 20 years now. It started with friends who had noticed the quick and dramatic change in me, and gradually grew by word of mouth. In 2016, I had so many people seeking instruction that I made my first online video, and then an online course, and this is how Crappy Childhood Fairy was born. My techniques and principles are practical yet powerful – an approach anyone can use, whether or not you have access to professional help. In this podcast, I’ll be talking about the master of self-regulation, and teach the tough-love life-lessons that you may not have learned at home – like how to date so that stable love finds you, how to get ahead at work, and how to calm the negative hamster-wheel thoughts that block your ability to connect with other people. Today, almost half a million people follow my work and participate in my training and coaching programs. My mission is to change the paradigm of what’s possible for people like us, and to help you free yourself from the oppression of trauma wounds, and to become your full, happy and real self. I’m glad you’re here! Watch new videos on my YouTube channel every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and access my videos, courses and free tools at crappychildhoodfairy.com.

    Heal These Trauma Wounds and Watch Your Productivity Soar

    Heal These Trauma Wounds and Watch Your Productivity Soar

    Have you ever struggled to get even basic things done, like get to work on time, put wet laundry in the dryer, or make a phone call? Everyone procrastinates sometimes, but for people who were abused or neglected in childhood, procrastination can take over your life and hold you back. In this four-video compilation I share some of my most powerful videos about CPTSD, productivity and procrastination -- why it happens and what to do.

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    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 49 min
    Male/Female Friendships Are Tested When One of You Gets A Partner

    Male/Female Friendships Are Tested When One of You Gets A Partner

    If you're a woman and you say your "close male friend" is just a friend, one test of your true feelings is how you feel when he gets into a relationship, and how she feels about you. A lot of people will gaslight the girlfriend, or blame the boyfriend for not standing up to her, but often there’s something else going on here. My letter today is from a woman

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    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 10 min
    Some CPTSD Partners Can’t Read the Signs You Need Support

    Some CPTSD Partners Can’t Read the Signs You Need Support

    A history of abuse and neglect can make a person crave extra emotional support. But when both partners have CPTSD, communication can be fraught and feelings of abandonment can turn into hours-long processing sessions. Can you teach a partner to listen to the needs you express? In this video I respond to a letter from a man who loves his partner in every way, but suffers when he works so hard to express his needs, and then doesn’t get the results he wants.

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    Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW

    Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf

    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 19 min
    Stop Agreeing to Stay Vague, Undefined & Unfufilled!

    Stop Agreeing to Stay Vague, Undefined & Unfufilled!

    If you had trauma in childhood, you may find yourself feeling that you have to hide how you feel in a dating relationship, and pretend you're "fine" when in fact you feel manipulated and hurt. Maybe you fear you'll look foolish or drive away what little love is available. But it's never worth faking a relationship just so you don't have to be alone. Being open and honest about how you feel and what you want is the most direct path to actually have what you want. In this video, I describe how a lack of clarity plays out in relationships, and steps you can take to stand up for yourself and build the relationship you want.

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    Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW

    Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf

    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 18 min
    CPTSD Overloads Your Nervous System (4-Video Compilation)

    CPTSD Overloads Your Nervous System (4-Video Compilation)

    One in three people (and even more among people with CPTSD) report that most days they feel completely overwhelmed -- emotionally, mentally and in terms of all they have to do in a day. Just about everyone has lost at least SOME of their power to FOCUS during the last decade. For many, it’s become much harder to feel alert and peaceful inside, and to get things done. In this 4-video compilation, I share some of my most popular videos on Clutter and Overwhelm, with tips on how YOU can recover your full potential to focus, take a

    Try the FREE Daily Practice Course: FREE PDF Download: https://bit.ly/3Y4263I

    Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW

    Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf

    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 1 hr 31 min
    The Price of Losing (or Keeping) Hurtful People in Your Life

    The Price of Losing (or Keeping) Hurtful People in Your Life

    It’s natural to want a loving connection with your own parents. When one or both of them have either abused or neglected you, and they continue to undermine and criticize you, it can be hard to know what to do when the parent who hurt you KEEPS hurting you. Even if you love them – even if you wish you could have a good relationship -- keeping them in your life can make it a LOT harder to heal. And after you go no-contact, and you still feel pain about not seeing them. In this video I respond to a letter from a man whose mother is pushing to reconnect, and he must decide whether to open the door to her.

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    Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW

    Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf

    Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com

    NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

     

    • 20 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
204 Ratings

204 Ratings

Miranda’s2 ,

Better than all my years spent on expensive therapy!!!

I found Anna on YouTube and she has been so much more helpful than years spent on expensive therapy! Most of the therapist I saw through the years didn’t know how to help me and I felt like there was no hope for me. It took Anna a woman who is not a therapist and makes no secret about it to help me with my trauma from childhood. Anna may not be therapist but she talks about her own life experiences and how she copes with her childhood trauma. Only another who’s been through similar experiences that I’ve been through was the only one who was able to understand and help. She has a lot of free videos and helpful tips on YouTube. She’s wonderful!

Leatherman Data Services ,

Sold Out ti Better Help

Unfortunately I have to give this podcast one star. They sold out to better health. Research what that company did and why they may be fined nearly 8 million dollars.

Periwinkle6932 ,

Love this podcast

I found Anna on YouTube. Her videos have been helping me make sense of my own behavior so I can change it. I simply cannot get enough of her content. Often I will put on her videos and go for a long walk so I can process them well.

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