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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.

Restore Yourself. Restore Your Marriage‪.‬ Shellie Anderson

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 18 Ratings

It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.

    The Rush of Foreplay

    The Rush of Foreplay

    Do you remember your dating years and how awesome it was to make out? It was such a rush! The often drawn out experience really allowed for so many emotions and sensations to build up in our bodies. We often enjoyed it so much that we usually looked forward to next time, and were even craving it. When we were dating, make out sessions seemed to last much longer than they do once you get married. When sex is introduced into the relationship, couples seem to just r...

    • 30 min
    Inducing Intimacy

    Inducing Intimacy

    Book your FREE Discovery Session at www.shellie.andersoncoaching.com today!Have you ever thought of inducing and intimacy in the same sentence? I hadn't either, until recently, when I heard a song on the radio that really caught my attention. The male singer talked about birthing lyrics and inducing songs. Interesting concept coming from a man who cannot physically birth babies.Listen in on today's episode, where we will take some awesome notes from these intriguing lyr...

    • 29 min
    Your Sex Life Is An Illusion

    Your Sex Life Is An Illusion

    Book a FREE Discovery Session at www.shellie.andersoncoaching.com. Have you ever thought that your sex life is an illusion? While dating life was fun and spontaneous, married life and the sexual aspect of it seems to be a lot different than what you thought it would be.This is where our lovely expectations come face to face with reality. Things have changed and shifted, and we may end up feeling like we were being played all along and that we are now just being used. Bu...

    • 34 min
    Married Sex is a Scam

    Married Sex is a Scam

    Book your FREE Discovery Session at www.shellie.andersoncoaching.comHave you ever thought that married sex turned out to be a scam? If so, you are not alone. Husbands feel scammed when the quantity of sex is not as high as they had hoped for. Wives feel scammed when the quality of sex is not as high as they had hoped for.Both spouses feel scammed for different reasons. This will leave each spouse attempting to solve the problem with approaches that will meet their own...

    • 28 min
    Mandatory Pleasure For Men

    Mandatory Pleasure For Men

    Sign up for a FREE Discovery Session at shellie.andersoncoaching.com. Have you ever wondered why men seem to enjoy and want sex so much more than their wife? While many might assume that its simply because their testosterone levels are higher, it's not the only reason.The arousing shenanigans of procreation actually requires the man to have "pleasure in the process" in order for it to be successful; it's mandatory. But this is not the same for women. The sweet spot of their most p...

    • 30 min
    Less Rhetoric, More Sex

    Less Rhetoric, More Sex

    Book your FREE Discover Session today at www.shellie.andersoncoaching.comHave you ever wondered what approach a husband takes when he is feeling in the mood for sex? Often, there is no strategic approach at all. And even more often, the approaches they do try often fall short.Listen in on today's episode where we look closer at a not-so-obvious trap about rhetoric that seems to be at the root of the many faulty approaches and quick fix attempts. Discover 3 tips for havi...

    • 1 hr 2 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
18 Ratings

18 Ratings

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Life Changing

I love listening to your wise teachings, but when I act on these messages, I am alive and I give my spouse a different person to respond to. Wow. Not always easy to do but choosing to act on these lessons is pure magic.

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