Girl Stop Playin | Personal Development for Black Girls

KOEREYELLE, Personal Development Coach
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Girl Stop Playin | Personal Development for Black Girls

Girl Stop Playin' is the go-to personal and spiritual development podcast designed to help ambitious Black women step into their power! Each week, Best-Selling Author and Empowerment Coach Koereyelle delivers real, raw, and relatable conversations on topics like marriage, motherhood, mental health, entrepreneurship, money, and mindset—all with that signature tough love that encourages you to stop playing with your potential and start taking action! Whether it's guest interviews with inspiring women or solo episodes with just Koe on the mic, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, motivation, and empowerment to elevate your life and level up in love and business. Tune in for edge-snatching advice that speaks to the heart of African American millennial women ready to take control of their future.

  1. 6D AGO

    206: Should You Buy a House Before You Have a Husband? w/ Ninekema Turenne

    In this episode of Girl Stop Playin’, I’m choppin’ it up with the mortgage money girl herself — Ninekema Turenne, a powerhouse loan officer who’s on a mission to help more of us build wealth through real estate. Whether you’re single, boo’d up, or somewhere in between, this convo is your sign to stop sleeping on homeownership and start securing the keys to your financial future. We’re talking: What it really takes to get mortgage-ready (hint: it ain’t perfect credit)How to buy a home before the husband 👀Creative ways to live rent-free (yes, for real)Why buying property now still makes sense — even with rising ratesAnd the key convos every couple should have before saying “I do” If you’ve been praying for clarity on buying a home, sis — this is your answered prayer. ✨ PLUS: Get the details on our upcoming Homeownership Readiness Workshop HERE on April 29th at 8p EST — where we’re breaking it all the way down and helping you get prepared to make the biggest boss move of your life. 💻 Sign up for the workshop: [HERE] 📲 Follow Ninekema on IG: @ninekema_turenne 🎙️ Join the convo and tag me on IG: @koereyelle Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    31 min

  2. APR 11

    205: Green Flags in Relationships: What Healthy Love Looks Like

    Hey girl hey! 💚 We've spent plenty of time talking about the red flags (and if you missed that episode, baby—go run it back!). But today? We’re flipping the script and focusing on the green flags—the divine signs that let you know you're on the path to a healthy, whole, and happy relationship. In this heartfelt solo episode, I’m sharing the real-life green flags that showed me my man was the one—not just because he’s fine (and he is, okay!), but because he’s consistent, emotionally intelligent, and committed to loving me the right way. I'm talking communication that brings clarity, not confusion. A man who respects your boundaries. A man who plans, protects, and provides peace. 💅🏽 So whether you’re dating, healing, manifesting, or just out here minding your standards—this episode will help you recognize what healthy love actually looks like and why you deserve every bit of it. Sis, no more struggle love. We’re elevating. We’re healing. We’re walking in purpose and partnership. Let’s get into it. 💕✨ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    35 min

  3. APR 4

    204: Red Flags in Relationships: Stop Ignoring the Signs

    Girl, let’s keep it all the way real! In this episode of Girl, Stop Playin, I’m breaking down the relationship red flags we love to overlook — from love bombing, gaslighting, and emotional unavailability, to the subtle signs we sometimes romanticize in toxic relationships. Whether you’re dating with intention, navigating a situationship, or healing from a toxic ex, this episode will help you stop second-guessing your intuition and start calling it what it is: your God instinct. I’m sharing personal stories, lessons learned the hard way, and some truth bombs to help you protect your peace and choose YOU. So if you’re tired of the same relationship cycle or you just need a reminder of what healthy love really looks like, press play, take notes, and pass this episode along to a sis who needs it. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    42 min

  4. MAR 25

    203: Girl, Stop Letting These Men Manipulate You w/ Winter Harris

    Sis, you already know what time it is! In this episode of Girl Stop Playin, we’re getting REAL about love, marriage, and the red flags we tend to ignore with my girl, Winter Harris—author, media maven, and reality TV star from Love & Marriage DC! 💍✨ We’re diving DEEP into her personal journey through two divorces, the lessons she learned the hard way, and why women’s intuition is our greatest superpower. If you've ever questioned whether you're settling, ignored those nagging doubts, or felt rushed into something that didn’t feel quite right—this one's for you! Winter keeps it all the way real about love-bombing, fake kingdom men, and how to protect yourself from manipulative relationships. Plus, we talk about the role family plays in exposing toxic behavior and why it’s crucial to pay attention to a man’s relationship with his mama! 👀 This episode is your official wake-up call to stop second-guessing yourself and start making intentional choices in love. Because the biggest business decision you’ll ever make is who you marry—and baby, we’re making POWER moves only! 💪🏾 🎧 Tap in NOW & don’t forget to share this with your girls—because we ALL need this conversation! #GirlStopPlayin #TrustYourGut #LessonsInLove 💕 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    50 min

  5. MAR 18

    202: Pray, Then Plan

    Hey girl, hey! 💁🏽‍♀️ You already know we don’t just talk about it over here—we BE about it. And today, I need you to lean in close because this episode is the confirmation you’ve been waiting for! 🙌🏾 We’re diving deep into why it’s so important to PRAY before you start PLANNING. Because let’s be real—how many times have you set goals, made vision boards, and planned out your whole life, only to hit a brick wall? Sis, sometimes we be out here doing the most without ever checking in with THE MOST HIGH! 👏🏾 Check out the sermon that inspired this episode here In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✨ How to align your plans with God’s purpose for your life ✨ The different forms of prayer (yes, your actions are a prayer too!) ✨ Why “Thy Will Be Done” is the ultimate manifestation hack ✨ How to stop forcing what’s not meant for you and start flowing into favor Plus, I’m giving y’all a little life update about our Mexico travels and why my family is making major moves to live life on OUR terms! 🌍💰 And before you go, if you’ve been thinking about becoming a certified travel agent, I’m hosting a LIVE Travel Agent Tell-All this Thursday at 8PM EST! You do NOT want to miss this game-changing info. 🔥 Click here to sign up! Press play, get these gems, and let’s make sure our next move is our best move! 🎧💜 #GirlStopPlaying #PrayThenPlan #Manifestation #FaithOverFear #Alignment #Podcast Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    17 min

  6. MAR 4

    201: You're Sitting at the Wrong Table

    "Sometimes God removes your seat at the table ‘cause they was serving poison!" Whew, baby! Listen—this episode is a word for anybody who’s ever felt played, betrayed, or confused about why certain doors didn’t open. I’m sharing a real-life lesson on how God’s rejection is really His protection, why we gotta stop trying to hold on to folks who ain’t for us, and how to trust that what’s meant for you will never miss you. ‘Cause when that season is up, baby, it’s UP! So if you been in your feelings about a fake friend, a missed opportunity, or a situation that just ain’t mathin’—this one’s for you! Tune in and let this be the confirmation you need to get up from that table before you end up on the menu! 👏🏾🔥 Interested in becoming a Certified Travel Agent? My Certification Course helps you get started in just six weeks! Learn More Here Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    7 min

  7. FEB 28

    200: God's GPS System

    Y’all, we made it to EPISODE 200—and I’m just over here feeling blessed, honored, and grateful!✨ Not only is Girl Stop Playin’ turning THREE this month, but next month marks 10 years since I first started podcasting! Whew, God is good!🥹 In this special episode, I’m sharing a word that hit me deep: How do you know where you're going without God's guidance? If you've been feeling lost, frustrated, or unsure about your next move, THIS is the reminder you need to tap in, stop playing, and start listening. Prayer is talking to God, but meditation is how we hear from Him—and baby, you might be blocking your own blessings by skipping the second half of the conversation! I’m breaking down how to ditch the struggle, align with your divine assignment, and let go of what’s not meant for you—from career moves to relationships (because let’s be real, we’ve ALL prayed for things we had no business wanting! 👀). PLUS, I’m spilling the tea on my travel agency relaunch and how you can get in on the action! So if you’ve been looking for clarity, confirmation, or just a sign to get back in alignment—this episode is for you. Press play, take notes, and let’s get in position for ALL the blessings coming our way! 🙌🏾💫 🔗 Ready to elevate? Click here to learn more about our travel opportunities and how YOU can become a certified travel agent. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    16 min

  8. FEB 21

    Solo Sermon: Prioritize Your People | Episode 199 Part 2

    Sis, let’s talk about it—when was the last time you really sat down and asked yourself, What am I working for? Who am I giving my time to? And is it really worth it? In this episode, I’m diving deeper into priorities—how easily we get caught up in overworking, overspending, and overextending ourselves for things (and people) that, in the grand scheme of life, just don’t matter. After my husband's heart attack, I had to get real about what truly deserves my energy. And let me tell you, some of these relationships, habits, and expenses had to GO. We’re talking about: 💰 Overspending – Are you working just to fund unnecessary expenses? 💡 People-Pleasing – Are you keeping relationships out of obligation, not alignment? ⌛ Time-Wasting – Are you pouring into people who wouldn’t do the same for you? This is your reminder to check in with YOURSELF. Are you holding onto things just because you’ve invested time? Are you stuck in cycles that don’t serve you anymore? Let’s get clear, let’s realign, and let’s make sure we’re keeping the main thing the main thing. Tap in, reflect, and let’s stop playing about what (and WHO) really matters! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    17 min
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Girl Stop Playin' is the go-to personal and spiritual development podcast designed to help ambitious Black women step into their power! Each week, Best-Selling Author and Empowerment Coach Koereyelle delivers real, raw, and relatable conversations on topics like marriage, motherhood, mental health, entrepreneurship, money, and mindset—all with that signature tough love that encourages you to stop playing with your potential and start taking action! Whether it's guest interviews with inspiring women or solo episodes with just Koe on the mic, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, motivation, and empowerment to elevate your life and level up in love and business. Tune in for edge-snatching advice that speaks to the heart of African American millennial women ready to take control of their future.

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