View From The Top Aaron Walker & Kevin Wallenbeck

"[The stepmom] deserves to be a parent to my children, just as I deserve to be a parent to her children, as long as we've got their best interest at heart.”

We put mystery stepfather, Bobby, under the forge today to talk about how he came back from total devastation 3 years ago. Both Wally and Big A really get at the deepest levels of why he and his wife divorced and how he determined to make the choices he made.

When life hands you a blend of triumphs and trials, it's the resilience cultivated through each challenge that truly defines us. As we navigate the emotional landscape of divorce and blended family dynamics, we uncover the essential role of empathy, understanding, and mentorship. Bobby's candid testimony underscores the power of community, particularly that of the Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind group, which proved instrumental in his inspiring transformation.

Key Takeaways:
Being defensive vs. argumentative when you are a "less emotional" manThe best advice to give couples blending their families togetherHow to change things when you're in the worst place you've ever beenThis episode is for those facing the harrowing task of co-parenting amidst separation. We broach the tough decisions that come with prioritizing children's well-being and the profound impact such choices have on family harmony.

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Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

"How do we lead if we have a wife that doesn't want to be led?” We might assume we know a lot about women, but actually we really DON'T know a lot about women. 

Marriage is often filled with mystery–how much should we lead, are we supposed to "be in charge," how do we solve difficult issues? 

As we peel back the layers of the husband's burden of leadership, Quentin Hafner, professional Skyward Success Coach and trusted advisor, helps us to dig deep into the heart of marriage and gives us practical ways to lead well. Together, we uncover the transformative power of a thriving partnership. Expect to walk away from this episode with a renewed perspective on leadership, empathy, and the delicate dance of communication that holds the key to a more connected and fulfilling relationship.

Key Takeaways:
The single best instrument for personal developmentWhat if your wife doesn't want you to lead? 3 crucial elements husbands must implement for the best possible outcomesHow do we solve problems within our marriage?This discussion is not your typical chat about marital roles. It's an intimate exploration of the intricacies of spiritual and practical leadership in a Christian marriage. We break down the misconceptions about what it means to lead, emphasizing the impact of servant leadership and the Holy Spirit's role in guiding us through the complexities of Scripture. Our talk is an invitation for husbands to lead with integrity and service, fostering trust and depth in their unions.

LinkedIn Group: 

Connect with Quentin Hafner:
Website: https://quentinhafner.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/quentin-hafner-93b07034/
 
Connect with Big A and Wally:
LinkedIn Group: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/group
Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

“I don’t want you guys chasing shiny objects.” Life is hard. Difficult circumstances come and go, we face hard decisions, we encounter business woes, marital friction, the battle against complacency, and so much more. What does it take to truly be resilient to the constant stress of this world? 

Between Wally's decision to sell his multi-million dollar business and Big A's wake up call to the tragedies of being unable to control life and safety within his family, you'll be getting a cold wash in the face yourself about life's most trying moments and men who walked through them and came out the other side. 

Key Takeaways:
How to solve difficult problemsBest routines for surviving the hardHow to build resiliency What matters more than preparationThe practice of gratitude, a simple yet profound shift in focus, is praised as a daily ritual that magnifies life's blessings over its shortcomings. Join us as we share these reflections, with the hope of enriching your path with the steadfast resilience and heartfelt gratitude that have fortified ours.

Resources:
Carol Dweck's Mindset
Dr. Andy Garret Resilience Course: https://www.truenorthprograms.online/sales-page-41c05714-f632-4d54-97ed-b88ab5449013

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Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable

Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

"We have tremendous opportunity in the marketplace, but only if we can stay there." How do you manage your margins instead of waiting until the end of the year to go, "Oh, great, we did pretty good!" Income should never be a surprise, margins should always be watched carefully. But HOW do we do this? 

Unlock the secrets to transforming your business's bottom line with Frank Abelson, a teacher of intentional profit engineering with over two decades of leading his own IT business. Frank takes center stage to share: 
How to maintain marginWhat the benefits of margin are besides just $$$Cultivate a fertile ground for ministry in the marketplaceV= B / C A unique way to look at your sales funnel to get maximum marginHe'll dive into the talents of your employees and team members, wallet share, and other pieces of the puzzle for you and your business to grow its margin.

Contact Frank Ableson:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/frankableson/
website: https://www.navitend.com/

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Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable

Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

"While I have loved the creative part of what I do professionally, it has not created the freedom that I desire [with] my time." David sets off a transformation that many dream of but few dare to pursue–can he really convert his high paying job to a business? Is this the best way forward for him and his family?

Many entrepreneurs wonder the same thing. We're peeling back the layers of such a transformative journey, examining the intersection of faith, ambition, and freedom in putting Christ first in business and relationships.  Our hosts share the tools they've used to keep the spark alive, offering insights and inspiration for nurturing the most precious relationships in our lives.

Key Takeaways:
What is your definition of "freedom"?How having a healthy marriage plays a huge role in having the best careerThe best way to transition from high paying job to business
David is in the midst of counseling and working on growing his relationship with his wife, while billing clients hourly for his law expertise. How do you automate your own mind?

Join our conversation on our LinkedIn Group: www.viewfromthetop.com/group

Connect with Anthony Witt:
witthouse.com or anthonywitt.com
Anthony Witt is a professional licensed counselor and a business owner with a deep understanding of how entrepreneurship impacts personal health and those around them. Having bought, sold, and started multiple businesses, he has gained valuable
experience at the intersection of personal health and business. His belief that "a healthy business owner creates a healthy business" underscores his approach to helping entrepreneurs thrive.

Connect with Bret Barnhart:
Bret’s Calendar Link: https://calendly.com/barnhartexcavating/view-from-the-top
Bret’s Linkedin
Bret Barnhart, Jr. is the fourth generation in his family to start his own excavation company. He began Bret Barnhart Excavating (BBE) in 2002 with $1,500, a single backhoe and truck, and a trailer. Since then, BBE has grown to an entire fleet of heavy machinery and trucks, averages just under 20 employees, and grosses $4mil annually.

Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

"I had to have everything figured out first 'cause I was fearful..." Fear can play a key role in your financial decisions that affect the rest of your life. Whether you're afraid to take a risk with your money or you're afraid to even LOOK at your bank account, it can drive our decision making more than we'd like to admit. 

So how do we overcome the fear of money, of making bad decisions with money, or not ever making enough money? How can we move past the dread in our guts we get whenever we think about our accounts? Big A and Wally talk about what they would have done differently in their past if fear hadn't stopped them. 

Key Takeaways:
Making wise investments in real estate vs. the stock marketHow to overcome the fear you get when you think about your bank accountWhy your fear might be making emotional decisions before logic kicks inHow Wally lost $600,000+ in 3 daysNavigating business growth can be as exhilarating as it is terrifying. This episode goes beyond the numbers, bringing into focus the transformative role of community, mentorship, and open communication. We're sharing the gritty lessons from our own entrepreneurial voyages, highlighting the crucial steps of taking action and learning from every outcome. We underscore the importance of unbiased advice and how facing our fears can lead to more agile business strategies.

LinkedIn Group: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/group
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Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable

Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/