UncommonTEEN: The Podcast for Christian Teen Girls Jamie Kirschner

Leah says, “There's a girl in my grade, we'll call her Jane. Jane is the "queen bee" of our grade. She has the nicest clothes (her parents are very rich) and she is VERY popular because she's dating a popular boy as well. She's also a bully. She'll bully kids who are very shy, and a girl has left the school because of her. 
 
Also, recently our grade voted for prefects (class leaders), and I was made a perfect. Jane was not. She was very disappointed, but now she keeps interfering with everything we are doing. We're organizing an event this coming week, and she's always involved, as well as ordering me around. I don't have a strong personality, is there any way that I can stand up to her that stays true to the scriptures?”
 
To answer this question or really any other question that has to do with bullying, let’s first answer the question what is bullying and what is not bullying. 
 
Bullying is an act that causes harm to someone else that is intentional and repetitive. This can be physical, which includes hitting someone, pushing them, or even damaging their property.  Bullying can be verbal, such as name calling, or insulting or teasing someone in a way that’s meant to hurt them. It can also be social, such as trying to manipulate someone, spread rumors about them, or excluding them on purpose. And bullying can be cyber, which is using online platforms to threaten or humiliate others. Bullying again is not a one-time act, it’s repetitive. It is not an argument between two people. It’s not a friend or someone else who is having a bad day, and they say or do something mean. Bullies tend to go after people who they perceive are weaker than they are. They feel like it gives them power. 
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I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

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I used to be the queen of comparison. Every single time I would walk into a room, the first thing I would do is search out who was in the room. 

I was not from a family who had a lot of money. We got new clothes once a year and that was right before school started, and they weren’t from the mall. They were the cheapest clothes that we could buy. So, as you can probably tell, they weren’t the nicest clothes, or the newest trends and I hated it. 

I remember one time, while in middle school, staying the night at my grandma’s house on a school night. I didn’t go home before coming to her house, so I didn’t have any clothes to wear to school the next day…and there was no way that I was going to where the same clothes two days in a row, even if I did wash them. My grandma had some extra clothes laying around her house, but the only thing that would fit me was a skirt. This skirt was long and had pink flowers. At that time, long skirts were not fashionable; skirts that were down to your knees were. I had a black shirt that I wore the day before, so I went ahead and wore that again with this skirt. Only, I wasn’t going to go out of the house looking like what I had thought at the time of as an old lady. Ha-ha…so, what I did was I rolled up the waste of this skirt until it was knee length. Do you know how much of a bulge I had at my waste from the extra fabric? 

Oh, my goodness! I was so embarrassed. I know, I know. Please forgive me, I was in middle school at the time…what did I know? I had a problem with always comparing myself to others, but this day, I really had a problem comparing myself to everyone around me. As a result of constantly comparing myself to everyone around me, I fell into what I like to call the comparison trap, and because I got stuck in this comparison trap, eventually I compromised who I was so much that I completely lost who I was as a person. 
Have you have done that? Have you ever walked into a room, saw another girl or group of girls and began to compare yourself with them? I’m not talking about from a “Who does she think she is” mentality or an , “I’m better than you” mentality, but f
The Beautiful Movement's Summer Box is now available for pre-sale! You have a chance to sign up before they sell out again! The Theme: “Walking with Jesus,” a box to help you go deeper with God this summer! Go to www.jointhebeautifulmovement.com, enter in code uncommonteen and get 15% off your first box!Follow on IG @the_beautiful_movement
I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

For the Ask Me Anything Questions, click on the RED BUTTON at the top of the screen. These questions may used on a future episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast!

For any prayer requests or more personal questions, click on the YELLOW CHAT TAB at the bottom right hand corner of the screen. These will not be used on the podcast unless you say you would like it to be used.
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This week's episode, we answer another AMA question with our special guest, Pastor Chris Dubois.

This week, we are answering, "I like this Christian guy, but he doesn't like me back. What should I do?"

We also dig deeper into what a healthy Christian Relationship actually looks like!

The enemy wants nothing more than for you to lose in life, but with God on your side, he doesn't get to win!

Chris Dubois Website
Chris Dubois Book
The Beautiful Movement's Summer Box is now available for pre-sale! You have a chance to sign up before they sell out again! The Theme: “Walking with Jesus,” a box to help you go deeper with God this summer! Go to www.jointhebeautifulmovement.com, enter in code uncommonteen and get 15% off your first box!Follow on IG @the_beautiful_movement
I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

For the Ask Me Anything Questions, click on the RED BUTTON at the top of the screen. These questions may used on a future episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast!

For any prayer requests or more personal questions, click on the YELLOW CHAT TAB at the bottom right hand corner of the screen. These will not be used on the podcast unless you say you would like it to be used.
Connect with Us!
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In this week's episode, we're answering the questions, "Is Jesus the Only Way to Get to Heaven?" and "If someone has never heard about Jesus, so they haven't had the chance to accept or reject Him, dies, will they go to heaven?"

A survey was done recently among Americans about what they believe about heaven. In this survey, these people were asked:
Do you believe in Heaven? 73% said yes.Do you believe you are going to heaven? 60% said yes.How does someone get to heaven? 50% said that if you are generally good or you do enough good for others, you will earn a place in heaven.40% said that you don't have to believe in God to go to heaven.On top of this survey, a couple years ago a pastor at a church in New York told his congregation that the belief that anyone who doesn’t believe in Jesus is going to hell is insanity. He then went on to say that’s not even what Jesus believed. He then went on to say that many people take many paths to get to God. 

But is what this New York pastor saying true? The short answer, no. He is deceived and sadly leading many people away from God not toward God. 

John 14:1-6 says and this is Jesus speaking, "“Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in Me (Jesus). There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you?When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. And you know the way to where I am going.”
 “No, we don’t know, Lord,” Thomas said. “We have no idea where you are going, so how can we know the way?”
Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through Me." 

 If these are the words that came right out of Jesus’ mouth himself, how ca n this pastor claim that Jesus did not believe this as Truth. It’s a lie and deceptive.   
 Jesus is the only way because He’s the only One who took our sins, replaced our sins with His perfect life and all we have to do is receive this free gift that He gives
The Beautiful Movement's Summer Box is now available for pre-sale! You have a chance to sign up before they sell out again! The Theme: “Walking with Jesus,” a box to help you go deeper with God this summer! Go to www.jointhebeautifulmovement.com, enter in code uncommonteen and get 15% off your first box!Follow on IG @the_beautiful_movement
I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

For the Ask Me Anything Questions, click on the RED BUTTON at the top of the screen. These questions may used on a future episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast!

For any prayer requests or more personal questions, click on the YELLOW CHAT TAB at the bottom right hand corner of the screen. These will not be used on the podcast unless you say you would like it to be used.
Connect with Us!
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UncommonTEEN Live Conference: UncommonTEENlive.com

This week, Pastor Chris Dubois is joining us on the UncommonTEEN Podcast. He is the founder and senior Pastor of the Awakening Church in Dover, NH. Along with being a husband and father of 6 kids, he is also the author of three books, including the one we are going to be talking about today called, “A Better Approach to Dating: Navigating the Modern Dating Scene with God’s Guidance.

This is a 2 part episode. In this week's episode, Pastor Chris Dubois answers the question, "What does a healthy Christian Relationship Look Like?"

In part 2, airing on April 8th, 2024, we are answering the question, "I like this Christian guy, but he doesn't like me. What should I do?" You aren't going to want to miss these episodes!

Check out Pastor Chris Dubois book here: A Better Approach to Dating: Navigating the Modern Dating Scene with God's Guidance
The Beautiful Movement's Summer Box is now available for pre-sale! You have a chance to sign up before they sell out again! The Theme: “Walking with Jesus,” a box to help you go deeper with God this summer! Go to www.jointhebeautifulmovement.com, enter in code uncommonteen and get 15% off your first box!Follow on IG @the_beautiful_movement
I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

For the Ask Me Anything Questions, click on the RED BUTTON at the top of the screen. These questions may used on a future episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast!

For any prayer requests or more personal questions, click on the YELLOW CHAT TAB at the bottom right hand corner of the screen. These will not be used on the podcast unless you say you would like it to be used.
Connect with Us!
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Dayla says, “I have a relationship with Jesus, but I struggle when I feel like I’m not close to Him. When I’m close with Him, I know that I would go to heaven, but sometimes I feel like when I don't feel  close to Him, that I won’t go to heaven and I’m very scared about that.”
In this week's episode, we're going to answer the questions:

1. What is Salvation?

2. How do we know if we are saved?

3. How do we get saved?

4. If you mess up, can you lose your salvation?

5. What does it mean to be out of fellowship with God?
The Beautiful Movement's Summer Box is now available for pre-sale! You have a chance to sign up before they sell out again! The Theme: “Walking with Jesus,” a box to help you go deeper with God this summer! Go to www.jointhebeautifulmovement.com, enter in code uncommonteen and get 15% off your first box!Follow on IG @the_beautiful_movement
I would love to invite you to join us this July 19th and 20th for UncommonTEEN Live 2024! Being a teen girl today is tough. Being a Christian teen girl is even more challenging, but God has given you everything you need to not just survive in this crazy world, but to SOAR! Head on over to UncommonTEENlive.com and grab your tickets today!
I also want to say thank you so much for your prayers! We found a venue and it is amazing…even better than I could have imagined.
Ladies, we have had challenges recently with the UncommonTEEN App and had to close it down. Don't worry, a new app is coming soon!!

If you still want to ask your Ask Me Anything Questions or if you need prayer, head on over to UncommonTEEN.com.

For the Ask Me Anything Questions, click on the RED BUTTON at the top of the screen. These questions may used on a future episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast!

For any prayer requests or more personal questions, click on the YELLOW CHAT TAB at the bottom right hand corner of the screen. These will not be used on the podcast unless you say you would like it to be used.
Connect with Us!
Website: UncommonTEEN.com
Instagram: @uncommon.teen
UncommonTEEN Live Conference: UncommonTEENlive.com