27 episodes

Being struck by the phrase "living the real" in a book he read years ago, Matt started processing his life through these three words. It wasn't long before he realized he repeatedly fell short of living a life evoking the same emotion that phrase conveyed. Thus started Matt's search for how to live a life that represented what those words surfaced in him. What came from that was his 3-M framework: Margin, Momentum and Maintenance.Join Matt as he unlocks the power of his 3-M framework through story and reflection.

Living the Real Matt Boettger

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 9 Ratings

Being struck by the phrase "living the real" in a book he read years ago, Matt started processing his life through these three words. It wasn't long before he realized he repeatedly fell short of living a life evoking the same emotion that phrase conveyed. Thus started Matt's search for how to live a life that represented what those words surfaced in him. What came from that was his 3-M framework: Margin, Momentum and Maintenance.Join Matt as he unlocks the power of his 3-M framework through story and reflection.

    Why you need more waste in your life (and why I've wasted this past month with no episodes).

    Why you need more waste in your life (and why I've wasted this past month with no episodes).

    It has been a challenging month, to say the least, and waste has been on my mind non-stop. Join me as I discuss my new relationship with "waste" and the challenges that come with it!

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    The Power of Moments by Chip and Dan HeathOmniGroupMagic Castle HotelThe Lean Startup by Eric RiesSupport the show

    • 20 min
    Why goals don't stick and what to do about it

    Why goals don't stick and what to do about it

    This episode is all about one of the most powerful lessons Matt has learned over the past five years: less focus on goals and more focus on cultivating the habits that manifest the life he wants to live!

    Please consider supporting this podcast:
    Give monthly (as little as $5 a month) on our Patreon Page - https://www.patreon.com/ltrGive a one time gift through Venmo at @mattboettgerGive a one time gift through PayPal here - https://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode (some links may be affiliate links where I receive a small commission for the recommendation) :
    The Power of Habit by Charles DuhiggAtomic Habits by James ClearThe One Thing by Gary KellerThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen CoveyStreaks Habit TrackerSupport the show

    • 25 min
    Three ways to protect yourself from life's harms

    Three ways to protect yourself from life's harms

    This episode is all about when life feels entirely out of control. Previous episodes have focused on learning to live life through the lens of "discovery." The problem is that when life feels upside down, "life as discovery" is meaningless. What first needs to happen is to stop drowning! This episode is all about how to patch the gaping holes of life so we can get our boat afloat again.
    Please consider supporting this podcast:
    Give monthly (as little as $5 a month) on our Patreon Page - https://www.patreon.com/ltrGive a one time gift through Venmo at @mattboettgerGive a one time gift through PayPal here - https://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode (some links may be affiliate links where I receive a small commission for the recommendation) :
    Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John TownsendDecisive: How to Make Better Decisions in Life and Work by Chip and Dan HeathThe Paradox of Choice: Why More is Less by Barry SchartzThe Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie KondoLiving the Real, Episode 9: Making Molehills out of MountainsFinancial Peace University by Dave RamseyThe ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary KellerSupport the show

    • 32 min
    Angie Long, LMFT | The Surprising Reason Why Relationships Fail And How to Fix Them

    Angie Long, LMFT | The Surprising Reason Why Relationships Fail And How to Fix Them

    I invite Angie Long on for a third time to discuss how friendship in romance is a defining characteristic of an enduring relationship and how to cultivate it if we don't have it. 
    Angie and I put our brains together to develop a simple Journal template to facilitate regular introspection leading to deeper affection and connection with the people we love most. You can snag it for FREE here. Matt also will provide a short video tutorial to show you how he uses templates like this one regularly in his life with a journal application called DayOne.    
    Please consider supporting this podcast:
    Give monthly (as little as $5 a month) on our Patreon Page - https://www.patreon.com/ltrGive a one time gift through Venmo at @mattboettgerGive a one time gift through PayPal here - https://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode:
    The Gottman InstituteThe Second Mountain by David BrooksDavid Brooks speaks at the Leo Hill Leadership Speaker Series at the University of Colorado Boulder.Support the show

    • 47 min
    The fraughts and failures of faith and how to live it rightly (even for the non-religious!)

    The fraughts and failures of faith and how to live it rightly (even for the non-religious!)

    In this episode, Matt takes a hard look at faith and how it can be our greatest asset but also our greatest enemy to a life well-lived.

    Please consider supporting this podcast:
    Give monthly (as little as $5 a month) on our Patreon Page - https://www.patreon.com/ltrGive a one time gift through Venmo at @mattboettgerGive a one time gift through PayPal here - https://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode:
    Love and Responsibility by Karol WojtylaSupport the Show.

    • 28 min
    How the depth of engaging life becomes the limit to the depth of our relationships

    How the depth of engaging life becomes the limit to the depth of our relationships

    In this episode, Matt takes a look at how our outlook on life directly impacts the quality of our relationships, and how to pivot to a better outlook on life for sake of better relationships!

    Please consider supporting this podcast:
    Give monthly (as little as $5 a month) on our Patreon Page - https://www.patreon.com/ltrGive a one time gift through Venmo at @mattboettgerGive a one time gift through PayPal here - https://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode:
    The Happiness Advantage by Shawn AchorLiving the Real, Episode 021Living the Real, Episode 009Living the Real, Episode 010Living the Real Journal TemplateThe Ideal Praise to Criticism Ratio by HBRWhy the 5 People Around You Are Crucial to Your Success by Entrepreneur Headspace - The app I have been using for meditation.Support the show

    • 29 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
9 Ratings

9 Ratings

WhatsBrownAndSticky ,

Supportive, Insightful, Encouraging

Matt and his guests offer some really wonderful frameworks for understanding life. I started listening to this while going through a really rough breakup, and it helped give me some positive ways to process what I was dealing with.

EmBa8141 ,

Insightful and challenging!

This is such a wonderful podcast full of insightful and challenging material that would be relevant for people in any stage of life. As a graduate student, this podcast is full of wonderful insights into how to live a more ordered life while in the challenging and hectic life of graduate school. I recommend this podcast for anyone in the process of transitioning in life or just looking to reorder their life to live a more values centered life and live the best life we can.

Monarchmomx22015 ,

Inspiration that applies to daily living

Great listen to refocus on living each day in the awareness of your intentions and desired outcomes. Little tidbits that stick in the mind to refer back to remind myself of what I’ve learned from this podcast. Calming and still very informative.

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