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Von and Jackie discuss the BDSM and kink scene, as well as Jackie's one-woman musical, Hold Me Down. They talk about how to get involved in the scene, including attending classes and munches (casual hangouts). They also clarify the definitions of BDSM, kinks, and fetishes. Jackie explains that BDSM is about power dynamics and can involve pain and pleasure, while kinks are personal preferences that turn someone on. They also touch on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, such as the portrayal in 50 Shades of Grey. They discuss the importance of communication, negotiation, and consent in BDSM, as well as the use of safe words. They also explore different aspects of BDSM, including role-playing, rope bondage (Shibari), and the variety of outfits and costumes in the scene. Jackie shares their experiences in the BDSM and kink scene, including the attire, etiquette, and purpose of dungeons. They explain that dungeons are community spaces where people can engage in BDSM play in a safe and consensual environment. Jackie also discusses their journey of finding freedom through bondage and overcoming shame and trauma. They turned their experiences into a musical called Hold Me Down, which incorporates dance, stand-up comedy, emotional storytelling, and original songs. The show is part of the Hollywood Fringe Festival and will have five performances in June.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction and Rehearsals for Hold Me Down
(02:23) Curiosity about BDSM and Kinks
(05:19) Explaining BDSM and Kinks
(08:36) Misconceptions and Representation of BDSM
(12:20) Power Dynamics and Safe Words
(13:54) Role Play and Different Dynamics
(15:53) Shibari: Japanese Rope Bondage
(22:08) Etiquette and Entry into the BDSM Community
(23:35) Exploring BDSM and Kink 
(31:03) Different Rules at Play Parties
(36:20) Finding Freedom Through Bondage
(41:10)From Songs to a One-Woman Show
(46:54) The Challenges of Rehearsing and Producing
(51:54) Getting Involved in the BDSM Scene
(53:35) Attending Classes and Munches
(54:05) Coordinating Play Parties
(55:05) Using FetLife to Connect 
(56:08) Being Cautious of Creepers

Hold Me Down Info & Tickets here

She was tangled up in shame and expectations of what everyone else wanted her to be.Through bondage, she found freedom.A one woman autobiographical musical as told by Jackie Yangyuen (she/they) – a queer and Asian American songwriter, actor, and kinky human.There will be an extra 30 min Q&A segment after the 6/22 performance!

Location: 5636 Melrose Ave, Los Angeles, CA 90038

Dates:
 
Sun June 09, 5:30 PM
Sat June 15, 7:30 PM
Mon June 17, 8:30 PM
Sat June 22, 10:00 PM
Sun June 30, 2:30 PM

In this solo episode, Von discusses his experience with burnout and the importance of prioritizing mental health and family. He reflects on his six-year journey of podcasting and how it has become a routine and part of his identity. Von also shares his struggle to balance podcasting with his social life and the challenges of scheduling guests. Despite the challenges, he finds fulfillment in podcasting and the opportunity to have conversations about mental health and recovery.

Chapters 
(00:00) Introduction and Experience with Burnout
(06:52) The Routine and Identity of Podcasting
(09:33) Balancing Podcasting and Social Life
(12:42) Challenges of Scheduling and Self-Expectations
(26:13) Focus on Mental Health and Recovery
(28:47) Conclusion and Farewell

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Von and Megan discuss various topics including their shared Filipino heritage, their experiences with sobriety, and their perspectives on work-life balance. They talk about their favorite Filipino foods and reminisce about their childhoods in the Philippines. Megan shares her journey to sobriety and the impact it has had on her life. They also discuss the pressure to hustle and the importance of prioritizing self-care and mental health. The conversation explores the importance of mindset and mental well-being in achieving success and overcoming challenges. It emphasizes that nothing in life matters until your mind is clear and highlights the difference between a scarcity mindset and an abundance mindset. The discussion also touches on the topics of comparison, resentment, and taking things personally, offering insights on how to handle negative emotions. The concept of resilience is explored, with the understanding that it is the choice to keep living and getting up despite life's challenges. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the podcast Untouchable Babes and the importance of setting a flexible schedule that aligns with personal needs and priorities.


Episode 218

Chapters
(00:00) Introduction and Childhood Memories
(05:12) Journey to Sobriety
(13:04) The Pressure to Hustle and the Importance of Self-Care
(23:53) Setting Realistic Goals and Avoiding Comparison
(26:29) The Power of a Clear Mind
(27:20) From Scarcity to Abundance: Shifting Mindsets
(29:32) Letting Go of Comparison and Resentment
(32:01) Choosing Resilience in the Face of Challenges
(36:26) Untouchable Babes: Empowering Women's Mindsets
(39:33) The Importance of a Flexible Schedule for Well-being 

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Von interviews James Evans, the host of the No More Dead Friends podcast, about his journey to sobriety. James discusses the feeling of relief and escape that substance abuse provided him, as well as the external factors that contributed to his addiction. James also talks about his experience in treatment and the importance of building a foundation in recovery. Both Von and James reflect on the challenges and rewards of maintaining sobriety. The conversation explores the importance of addiction recovery and the challenges faced by individuals in maintaining sobriety. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with addiction and the role of support systems, such as Narcotics Anonymous (NA), in their recovery journeys. They emphasize the need for education and understanding of addiction as a disease and the importance of treating it as such. The conversation also delves into the power of cognitive behavioral therapy in changing distorted thinking patterns and building self-worth. The hosts discuss the No More Dead Friends podcast and its mission to share stories of recovery and promote awareness about addiction.


Chapters
 
(00:00) Introduction and Background
(08:50) James' Experience with Alteration and Medication
(25:10) The Challenges and Rewards of Maintaining Sobriety
(32:43) The Role of Support Systems
(49:33) Introducing the No More Dead Friends Podcast

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On today's episode, Von has a profound conversation with Channy Crossfire who is a South-East Asian multifaceted adult content creator. Channy bravely opened up about the personal struggles, that propelled her towards this path, such as mental health challenges and a desire to pursue her passions.

Delving deeper into the conversation, they explore exploitation, personal agency, situational awareness, and consent in the adult industry. As the dialogue unfolded, Channy Crossfire shared personal experiences from the adult industry, shedding light on the challenges and risks encountered in more extreme scenes. Crossfire underscores the importance of mentorship, accountability, and maintaining a balance between personal and professional life. Her insights on transparency, empowerment, and self-advocacy shed light on the significance of establishing support systems and promoting a culture of safety within the industry.

Their dialogue expands into the realm of mental health awareness and healing within Asian American communities. In a raw and insightful culmination of our discussion, they explore the deeply personal journey of breaking toxic cycles, healing from past traumas, embracing self-discovery.

Von and Channy share vulnerabilities around struggles with self-hatred, trauma, addictive behaviors, emphasizing the importance of accountability, self-forgiveness, moving towards a path of self-love and acceptance. Navigating the impact of family dynamics and inherited toxic habits, they unearth the significance of breaking the cycle of shame and trauma to cultivate emotional resilience and maturity.

Chapters:
(0:00) Introduction to Channy Crossfire
(8:36) Reflections on Recovery and Mental Health Awareness
(14:25) Challenges in the Adult Content Industry
(19:36) Importance of Safe Words and Safety Protocols
(22:07)Experience with Hardcore Scenes and Setting Boundaries
(26:53) Embracing Authenticity and Intensity
(27:45) Journey to Mental Health Advocacy
(28:59) Life Changes and Epiphanies
(47:15) Breaking Toxic Family Cycles
(49:18) Fighting for Future Generations
(50:57) Bridging Generational Perspectives

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In this conversation, Von interviews Justin, a breakdancer, registered nurse, and founder of Hi-Fi Kitchen. They discuss their past experiences in the open mic and music scene, as well as Justin's journey into breakdancing and nursing. They also touch on Von's fear of needles, their love for food, and the inspiration behind starting Hi-Fi Kitchen. Justin shares his journey from nursing to starting his own restaurant, Hi-Fi Kitchen, in Historic Filipinotown. He talks about his passion for food and creativity, and how he decided to take a leap and pursue his dream. Justin also discusses the LA spin on Filipino classics that Hi-Fi Kitchen offers, and the importance of celebrating the Filipino culture through food. He mentions two upcoming events: an art exhibit highlighting the Filipino Angelino diaspora and Historic Illipinos, an event celebrating the impact of Filipinos in Hip-Hop.


Chapters
(00:00) Introduction and Reconnecting
(07:24) Balancing Nursing and Music
(15:08) The Birth of Hi-Fi Kitchen
(38:45) Upcoming Events: Art Exhibit and Historic Illipinos


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